Women, Do You Feel Cursed In The Sex & Relationships Department?

“He didn’t like me enough to 'make it more'. He just loved fucking me.”

Deep down every woman wants to find “the one,” or at the very least to find a husband, and when that doesn’t work out she's left feeling used. This keeps happening over and over again, until she hates herself more and more... and then it's all shit.

You realize you need to be courted.

You need somebody to take you out and spend money on you.

You know there's something about a first date and a first kiss, but the men from your past have often left you feeling completely used in the worst way, so now you’re thinking about taking and not giving anything in return.

You want to be more like them.

Yes, you want to be more like a man, because you have come to hate being a girl.

But instead of hating yourself and lamenting your "low self-esteem," you really just need to become a woman.

Being "a girl" isn't cutting it anymore, and you know it - yet you don't know how to become a woman because you have no idea what a woman's energy feels like in your body.

So you keep on buying Victoria's Secret bras and panties until your dresser is overflowing with them, because that sexy feeling you get when you first put them on lasts for but a moment - it never stays long enough to carry you up into the next level of your game as a woman.

Urban life has an insidious way of draining a girl of all of her life force and giving her nothing in return.

Of course, an urban girl has a lot of “fun.” You have a closet full of boots and shoes that seem to represent the wildly orgasmic, sensuous woman buried deep down inside of you, but the real men around you don’t seem to see it. The only men who pay you mind are an array of tools, pussies, players and chumps. Maybe you'll find a confident, attractive man to spend the night with from time-to-time, only to never hear from him again - and you may never even ask yourself "why?"

But despite your apparent lack of success, weekend-after-weekend you and your girlfriends continue to wobble about the town in those high-heels, passing judgment on each other – all the while hoping to attract a man whom you dream will recognize the precious woman trapped inside of you, snap you up and take care of your every need… because he wants "all this" all to himself for the rest of his life.

But does that sort of man ever show up - and if he does, does he “see you?”

Does he look at you and go:

"OMG! You’re the woman of my dreams and I have millions of dollars and I want to take care of your every need until you are ready to leave me - at which time you can take half of what I have?”

I mean, how likely is this going to happen given that you have no idea what a man is even looking for or how to be that sort of woman who has what he is looking for?

In fact, it is because you lack this knowledge on a vibrational level, that you always end your nights accosted by some loser guy who is just a half-drunk little boy, wanting to fuck you.

And what's crazy is, you often let these guys fuck you!

Does it make any sense to keep undermining your own value, and then hope somebody else will still be able to see it?

You need to get out of living that kind of life ASAP because it’s headed nowhere. At a certain point everyone in this town may have fucked you, but nobody will want to take you home to their mother. Then you’ll wonder and whine why you “can’t have a man,” and think you’ve been cursed, or that men are simply horrid… but you’ve really just been rather dumb – at least to anybody intelligent who has been observing your life.

Do you really want to be another "single woman with a dog" whom you see roaming about the urban landscape?

What's even more tragic, is should you accidentally find yourself in a relationship with a real man... who can see the buried potential inside of you... who is secure enough in himself to overlook your "history" and is willing to invest the requisite time and energy into you to bring forth your potential as a woman... you give him hoops to jump through - telling him that he needs to "work for it."


Look, I know I'm breaking you down a little here yet I don't want you to think I am insensitive to the inner conflicts that are tearing you apart.

See, despite your need to feel precious, and your awareness that you can never be truly happy unless sex leads to something greater...

Yet you are still very excited by all the nasty sex you see in porn!

Your pussy gets wet just thinking about the things you see online!

multiple orgasms

Some days you masturbate for hours - to things that you tell yourself you’d never do in real life. You are amazed at the way some women "deep throat," and wish for a dominant man who would inspire you to learn to “take the cock.”

The problem is that in America if you have sex with a lot of guys you're labeled a slut. Now, you don't think this is fair and you want to have more fun...

...but at the same time as a truly beautiful girl you find it hard to have sex with a parade of low-quality men because you know you deserve better, and because you realize that the more low-quality men you have sex with, the more you lower your "sexual market value." Sure, you can lie about your sexual past when you meet Mr. Right, but your past always has a way of catching up with you.

But even more importantly, how do you know if a man is good in bed? Most men last only a few minutes before ejaculating, and don't even know where your g-spot is, let alone how to give you a full-body orgasm. Let's face it, most men suck in bed and so you end up lowering your value and getting nothing but frustration and disappointment in return!

The whole thing is messed up because you just want to have some fun but you can’t relax!

So sometimes you break down, take a risk and have a "one-nights stand" while drunk so that you don't have to deal with "it."

But mostly you end up watching some porn online, "do your business" and then go to bed.

Like some teenage boy.

You’re not alone.

Women these days watch just as much porn as men, and just like men they struggle with how to balance their desire for sexual exploration with their hunger for a relationship.

You want to have a man inside of you who inspires total surrender because you know that such surrender not only guarantees that you will be able to achieve the most amazing orgasms, but because the trust required for such surrender creates a container in which all sexual fantasies can be explored in safety.

You also want a real man who isn't intimidated by your ravenous sexual appetite. Of course you want a man who takes possession of you, yet at the same time one who uses his natural sexual jealousy as a gateway for the both of you to enter into a world where you are allowed to bathe in your sensuality and indulge one sensation after another - because his heart is even bigger than his cock.

Compare this sort of man against one whom you are just "kind of attracted to" because he's "nice." *vomit*

How tragic is it to be so externally beautiful, yet be completely unaware of your real internal beauty - as a woman living as an orgasmic wave and capable of manifesting everything she desires?


To walk the urban streets with a long-face, staring down at the ground avoiding eye contact with men…

...to be totally dissatisfied with men and sex on every level?

You are clueless, and no man has ever cared enough about you to tell you so. They were all too busy lying to you because they didn’t know where their next blowjob would be coming from!

So the question I pose to you again is...

How can you attract the sort of man who will clearly see the wonderfully wanton creature inside of you, when nobody has ever made you feel like that woman or given you instruction on how to be her to begin with?

This is why no matter how many self-help books you read, or affirmation you write down, you fail to attract the sort of man you need the most.

You need to shine with the sort of orgasmic radiance and femininity that will attract the sort of man you seek.

And this is the whole problem in a nutshell... It's like the saying, "You need money to make money."

Buying bras at Victoria's Secret or boots at Louis Vuitton aren't going to give you the "orgasmic capital" to afford entry into the game of life at the level you wish to play at, and orgasmic radiance is not something where you can just "fake it until you make it."

At some point you are going to need a man to grab you by the hand and take you into the new world.

The reality is that you can be the kind of woman who gets text messages all night long from men offering you anything you desire – if only you would see them for just one day out of the month!

But it's going to take some work - you are going to have to invest in yourself the same way a man invests in himself.

I used to study Tango and my tango instructor would scold the female students:

"You need to practice following! I know you think that one day a man will come around who is such a talented lead he will make you shine no matter how awful your dancing - so you can enjoy the tango experience without having to put the work in. But let me ask you ladies something: when this man comes around, why will he want to dance with you? So, I suggest you work on your following!"

I mean, how will you ever be happy if you are just a replica of all your friends - who are all going nowhere fast? Living for their jobs and believing that no woman can ever be happy allowing her body to take over her mind?

The reality is that you don’t have to fight so hard to not be your typical girl.

Your problem is you may think you know what sex is, but most of you have no clue.

The rest of you have only a faint idea of it.

Most of you now think orgasm is something to strive for – and that you are multi-orgasmic if you can have 3 clitoral orgasms in a row!

Because of your ignorance, many of you are even at the point where there is nothing about sex that would make you want to do it with anybody - so you "do it" in order to get something from somebody. You think men weak for the power sex has over them, never realizing the power orgasm should have over you - and that it is anything but a weakness for you!

This is the root of your suffering. You have so far lived your life denying your very nature. From day one! You push away the freak in you and deny its existence, yet your inner freak is the one who allows you to have joy and magic in your life.

How can you have a joyous existence if you deny your own nature?

Certainly nobody has ever made love to you in a way that a woman needs to have it happen. Why do you think so many women are out there experimenting with other women?

Men have lost all sense of sensuality.

Don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with the aggressive, dominating sex that comprises 90% of porn today, but it needs to be experienced within the context of sensual surrender – and not as an expression of self-loathing.

I mean, when was the last time you saw a woman have an orgasm in porn, let alone showcase her fully-orgasmic nature?

Without the full embodiment and integration of your sexual energy what can be accomplished? Most women focus on their physical beauty only, but almost all neglect their orgasmic nature.

This is because they simply don’t know about it!

Look, the most sought after men in the world drown in physical beauty and are looking for the ultimate – which is a woman who can reflect back their masculine energy to them during the throes of her full-body, orgasmic waves. If you can do this, you can write your own ticket, for without being able to see their masculine energy reflected back to them via the lense of a woman’s heart, they are like the sun out in the vacuum of space, with no concept that they are keeping an entire planet alive.

The truth is that to be able to attract and own the heart of any man you desire, physical beauty is not enough.

Let's continue this conversation. I'm a muscular and handsome, high-testosterone caucasian male who stands 6'2" naked. I possess an 8" cock that radiates amazing energy and I have unlimited stamina.